Need someone to talk to?
Maybe the house is quiet, nobody around you gets what you're into, or you just want a conversation with someone new. Perfriend connects you with a real person for a one-on-one text chat.
Perfriend is a place to chat with strangers. It isn't a crisis or counselling service. If you're thinking about hurting yourself or you're in crisis, you deserve real support right now: in Canada or the US, call or text 988. Anywhere else, contact your local emergency number or a local helpline.
What you can expect
Perfriend is for everyday conversation. You'll be talking with another person, not a trained listener or an AI, so chats can be funny, deep, awkward or short, like any conversation with someone new. It works best when you start from something you enjoy.
How it works
It takes about a minute to start your first chat.
- Continue as a guest, or sign up with Google or email.
- Type a few interests, like anime, F1 or cooking.
- Get matched one-on-one with someone who shares one, and see what you have in common.
- Skip anytime. If you click with someone, add them as a friend and keep talking.
When you might want something else
A stranger can be great company, but they can't replace proper support. Think about these instead if they fit:
- If you're in crisis, call or text 988 in Canada or the US, or your local helpline.
- If you've felt low for a while, a doctor or counsellor can help.
- If you'd like to talk to someone who knows you, try messaging one person you trust, even if it's been a while.
Keeping yourself safe
You're talking to a stranger, so keep personal details like your address, workplace and passwords to yourself. If anyone makes you uncomfortable, leave the chat. You can report and block them in one tap, and they won't be matched with you again.
Questions
Are the people on Perfriend real?
Yes. You're matched with other people using Perfriend, not bots.
Is Perfriend therapy or a helpline?
No. Perfriend is a chat site for adults. For crisis support in Canada or the US, call or text 988.
What if nobody is online?
If nobody matches your interests after a few seconds, we widen the search. At quieter times you may need to wait a little longer.
Is it free?
Yes. Free accounts get 20 new chats a day, the first 5 matched on your interests, and up to 3 friends. Plus (from $5.99/month) removes the daily limits, and Pro (from $9.99/month) adds unlimited friends and a gender filter.
Who can use Perfriend?
Adults only. You must be 18 or older to use Perfriend.